To be needy or not???
When are you too needy and when are you not needy enough?????? The other day I was thinking about a few people I know and how some feel they are too needy. If you are tagged in a circle of friends or in a one to one relationship as needy usually it is thought of as bad thing or at least frowned upon. So the other day as I was thinking about these “needy people” I thought you are taught to stand on your own two feet and some kids even have to take care of a household because of a dysfunctional home. These kids usually turn out to be the people who others lean on for support. There are the people who always had someone looking out for them and now in later life are not sure how to fend for themselves. The people who others ask for support sometimes are the people who when are in need themselves they find it hard to ask the other person. Perhaps they do not want to be labeled needy because they are so sure they can do it alone. I think we all need something or someone in this life. First you need to try your own wings and fly upward and high but there are times when the flight gets hard and you need to fly with the pack !!! Anytime you see a turtle up on top of a fence post, you know he had some help. Alex Haley
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My name is Kathy. I am 55 years old. I have two dogs and a cat. I work with seniors. I am an Executive Director in a retirement community.I love my job and my life!