Friendship is still mystifying to me. I have a friend who was depending on another friend for an important favor. Then right before they were to do the favor they said they could not do it leaving my friend in a whirlwind of trying to coordinate someone else to help her. I know some other people lately who seem to be friends but talk about each other to other people. What is friendship I ask??? The two people that are friends but talk to other people about each other both had problems recently. The two of them rallied for each other in an honestly caring manner. So who would have thought???? Now the friend who needed the favor told me of her problem and I offered to help her .She needed more than one person so she started to ask neighbors and by the time she was going away she had all the help she needed. At this point is when I realized what I felt all along…..Most of the time people will be there when you need them….there are more “good and caring” people than not. My friend said to me you might not need my help one day like I needed you but someone will and I will give back to them…..the same as you gave me…Now this is reciprocating…………………………friends
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My name is Kathy. I am 55 years old. I have two dogs and a cat. I work with seniors. I am an Executive Director in a retirement community.I love my job and my life!